5 Things I Love About Being a Thailand Expat
Posted By:
James D on Jun 23, 2010 in
Culture and Customs
I came to Thailand about 2 years ago, thinking it was about time to go see the world. This was my first stop—thought I’d
cruise around for a few months, figure out how to make some
internet cash,
and then head off to see the rest of the world. Well, as it turned
out, I ended up staying for a while longer. I keep telling myself I’m
leaving this month—been saying that for a while—and I think this month I
mean it.
But people keep asking me—what is it about Thailand? Why haven’t you left?
So here’s 6 things I love about being a Thailand expat.
1. Jai Yen Yen
One of my favorite words in Thai language is jai yen yen. The
literal translation means “to have a cool heart” or to “cool your
heart.” Jai yen yen permeates every part of Thai culture and everything
they do. It’s about relaxing and slowing down.
Enjoying life and not taking anything too seriously.
This has had an amazing effect on my workaholic mindset, and it’s
something I hope to carry with me no matter where I go in life. In this
country, there’s no rush in life. No hurry. Jai yen yen.
Time slips effortlessly, and no one ever seems to have anything too
pressing to do—at least nothing too serious. Sure, this means things
don’t get done as fast as they should and a work night can easily
transform into drinking beer with your buddies till morning, but in the
end, the lack of stress surely makes up for it.
2. Sanuk
On a similar note, sanuk is a huge part of the culture, and it ties
closely in with this idea of jai yen. Sanuk basically means “fun.” And
Thais expect everything to be fun. If it’s not fun, they make if
fun—and that includes working the most miserable of
jobs.
This caught me off guard a couple times, especially when I went to
the waterfalls with my 28 year old Thai buddy and his girlfriend, and he
kept saying we should go back in the water and “play” some more. Where
I come from, you stop “playing” at about 11 or 12 years old and start
doing “cool” stuff instead. Maybe that’s part of what’s wrong with our
high-strung culture.
3. Motorbikes
You’ve probably picked up from my articles that I’ve got a bit of a
thing for adrenaline and putting my life in danger. And I’ve definitely
almost killed myself a couple times, but I still love the fact that
everyone is on a damn motorbike.
Note, that I said “motorbike” and not motorcycle. If you haven’t
arrived yet, you’ll see what I’m talking about. Barely more than a
scooter, the Thai motorbike isn’t the coolest thing in the world, but I
just love the freedom and conveniences of zipping a scooter across town
on a whim.
4. Lack of Confrontation
Back in America, people are highly confrontational, both in a violent
and non-violent manner. Yelling at people over a missed deadline or a
late cup of coffee. Fighting in the bars. I’ve never had much of a
stomach for confrontation, and much like a Thai, I’m typically the kind
to fly off the handle when someone verbally attacks me or gets
confrontational in a nightclub.
But in Thailand, it’s so easy to stay out of trouble if you’re not a
confrontational person. People don’t bother you. They don’t force
their opinions on you. They don’t verbally attack you—ever. And for
many, that’s the root of many problems in Thailand. But for me,
preserving the harmony works just fine, at least on a personal level.
5. The Food
Need I say more?
6. The Cost
This one probably doesn’t need a lot of elaboration either, but what
really seals the deal for me is the cost. Live on $1000 a month while
having all the luxuries in life? Live like a star on $2000 a month, and
pocket the rest away for savings or investments.
Count me in.
I still haven’t figured out why so many wait for retirement to come
here, but hey, it’s fine with me; I’ll just have all the fun for myself.